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In-person in south denver & online across colorado

counseling for couples

“We don’t know how to talk about the hard things.”


“I miss how we used to be.”


“We want to learn how to do this well, not just figure it out as we go.”


What if your relationship could feel more connected, steady, and alive?

I work with couples who feel stuck in patterns of miscommunication, emotional distance, or recurring conflict, as well as those who want to strengthen their foundation before problems take hold. You may find yourselves having the same arguments, feeling misunderstood, or noticing a growing gap in emotional or physical connection. Or, you may want to be proactive and build a relationship that can hold both closeness and challenge in a healthy way.

In our work together, we identify the patterns that shape your dynamic, including attachment needs, communication habits, and the ways you each respond when things feel difficult. From there, we focus on strengthening communication, navigating conflict with more clarity, and rebuilding connection in a way that feels authentic and sustainable. The goal is a relationship where both partners feel seen, supported, and able to grow together.


couples counseling

reconnect

Couples counseling is a space to slow down and understand the patterns shaping your relationship, especially when you feel stuck in miscommunication, disconnection, or recurring conflict. Using a blend of attachment based work, EFT, and Gottman Method principles, we explore how each of you experiences connection, stress, and conflict, including the role of your nervous systems. Together, we build healthier patterns of relating, strengthen communication, and create a relationship where both partners feel more seen, supported, and secure.

premarital and foundation building

build strong roots

Premarital and foundational work is for couples who want to be intentional about how they build their relationship from the beginning. Rather than waiting for patterns to become problems, we focus on developing strong communication, understanding each other’s attachment styles, and creating shared expectations around connection, conflict, and intimacy. This work helps you build a foundation that can hold both closeness and challenge, while supporting a relationship that feels steady, connected, and aligned over time.

couples intensives

accelerate change

Couples intensives offer a more focused, in depth experience designed to help you move through patterns more quickly and intentionally. In longer, structured sessions, we take a deeper look at the dynamics shaping your relationship, including communication cycles, emotional responses, and nervous system patterns that may be keeping you stuck. Using approaches like EFT, attachment based work, and Gottman Method principles, we create space for meaningful shifts, helping you reconnect, repair, and build healthier ways of relating that feel more sustainable and supportive moving forward.

Intensives are 3-4 hours scheduled on a Friday or Saturday, by appointment only

This practice is best suited for monogamous relationships; if you are seeking support for a different relationship structure, I am happy to help connect you with trusted referrals.


I’m here to help with:

+ life transitions

+ communication

+ emotional disconnection

+ sex and intimacy

+ DatING

+ PREMARITAL

+ LONG TERM Relationships

+ building trust

If you’re ready to…

01

Communicate more openly and effectively


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Feel more connected, supported, and understood


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Navigate conflict with more clarity and care


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Create a relationship that feels alive, engaged, and meaningful

…then let’s get to work.

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because, At the end of the day:

Investing in your connection is what makes your relationship thrive.

  • It helps when both partners are willing to show up and engage, and there does need to be a shared commitment to the process, even if one of you feels uncertain about the relationship itself. You do not have to feel fully certain or “ready” to begin. It is common for one partner to feel more hesitant at first. Part of the process is creating a space where both of you can feel comfortable, understood, and able to participate at your own pace, while still staying engaged in the work together.

  • Absolutely. Many couples come in before things feel urgent because they want to feel more connected, communicate better, or strengthen their foundation. When you are not in crisis, there is often more space for intentionality, reflection, and meaningful growth. Therapy can help you be proactive in your relationship, address patterns early, and build a stronger, more supportive connection over time.

  • If this resonates with you, the next step is to reach out through the contact form or email to schedule a brief consultation or an initial session. This gives us a chance to connect, talk through what is going on, and make sure working together feels like a good fit. From there, we can get your first session scheduled and begin the process at a pace that feels supportive for both of you.

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